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previous ~ ~ ~ next I had the most disturbing dream last night... (Incidentally, in case you were wondering, the post title was supposed to be a play on the song title: California Dreamin'. I'm lame, yes, yes, I know. Thanks for sharing.) So yes, I realize that dreams are of interest to no one but the dreamer, but this is my journal. :) And I'd really like to think out what exactly it means. So, I guess you could always go look at some random post, although there aren't that many here... It started out with me at... a high school football game? A play? Something. And I saw Mom and Dad and Larry sitting in the bleachers a little ways away. Far enough that we couldn't just shout to hear each other, close enough to see facial expressions clearly. Dad wouldn't look at me; Mom looked... I don't know. I can't remember now. I don't think I even saw whether or not there was an expression on her face. The only word that comes to mind now is "neutral" but I really don't remember what her face looked like. And Larry... Larry looked at me and tried to smile, except it came out more as a grimace than anything else. But I could tell he was trying. So I went to go see them after the game (play?) was over, and I thought I was just trying to ask about reconciliation, but somehow, it became about me going back to live with them. So, the next thing I know, we're in Old Blue (pickup truck), "we" being me, Mom, and Larry. Mom was driving (which is all wrong, because Larry never lets anyone else drive) and we were talking... I guess about how things were going to be. After a bit, Larry nodded, as if he were satisfied, and then, just... got out of the truck. We didn't stop, or anything, he just, opened the door, stepped out, and was at the farm. (I don't know! It's a dream!) So, Mom and I talked. I think some more about what the ground rules would be for me to stay there. And then we got to the farm, and, of course, Larry was already there. So I came in and, suddenly, it was night. I go into my parents' bedroom, I don't remember why exactly, now, a bad dream, maybe? That's really the only reason I'd go into their room at night... And instead of being Mom and Dad in the bed, it was Mom and Larry. And the fact that it was Larry instead of Dad didn't faze me. Mom told me to climb in (which is what makes me think I was going in there with a bad dream; I used to have nightmares, and I would go crawl into bed and tell Mom about it and get hugged and then go back to my own bed, even when I was much too old to still be needing comforting from nightmares), and I obediently did. Except that then Mom was gone and it was just Larry and he was naked. Erk. Then it was morning, and it was... I don' t know, business as usual, I guess. I got up to work on my chores, cleaning the bathroom, specifically, and then I woke up. Ok, easily dismissed aspects: Things to consider: How many days until finals? What was one good thing that happened today? Miscellaney: Tell me what you think. Ilsa :: Ilsa's Site �::Ilsa's Comment(s)�:: Maybe Dad wasn't in the dream because he wasn't a factor in the things that happened with Larry. It's a nightmare, and part of the nightmare at the time may have been that Dad didn't really "know" about all the stuff going on. [2004-05-04 21:11:33] More Ilsa :: More Ilsa's Site �::More Ilsa's Comment(s)�:: I've heard that dreams are your unconscious mind's way of trying out solutions to problems that may, or have already, come up. Anthony and your Dad can't be in the dream because they can't help deal with Larry and your mom, or Larry's....past abusiveness or future inapropriateness. [2004-05-04 21:49:18] Ridiculous Amounts of Ilsa :: Ridiculous Amounts of Ilsa's Site �::Ridiculous Amounts of Ilsa's Comment(s)�:: I just read what you wrote again and everything I wrote you had already figured out. Sorry. Do you ever notice that Hallmark makes no Older Abusive Pedofiliac Adulterous Disgusting "Family Friend" Day cards? Shouldn't that be his cue to hit the road? Feh. I tell ya. I snap and he's the first to go... [2004-05-04 21:56:46] Tessa :: Tessa's Site �::Tessa's Comment(s)�:: Ilsa, I love you! :) You know, that's amazing that Hallmark doesn't make those cards. You'd think there'd be... erk. I was going to make a flippant remark about how you'd think there'd be a great demand for them, but that's really not something I want to think about... But it's nice to have an independent review come up with some of the same answers I did. :) [2004-05-05 10:31:33] Cast List ~ ~ ~ Kitties, kitties everywhere Most recent: The REAL surprise party - Monday, Jul. 11, 2005 Still not here - Wednesday, Jul. 06, 2005 Moved - Thursday, Jun. 30, 2005 I survived - Thursday, Jun. 23, 2005 Go see her. Now. - Thursday, Jun. 02, 2005 |
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