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previous ~ ~ ~ next Without explanation, because I can't say this anywhere else: Dear Rob, Shut the hell up. Quit your lying, griping, complaining and belly-aching. Realize that your dad and step mom helping you out is a privilege, not a right, and be grateful for all they've done for you. You are 40 years old. You are more than capable of working. I'm sorry you've had a "tough break" as you see it. I personally think you brought all this on yourself. For once in your life, take responsibility for your own actions, and pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start all over again. You can do it. !No one is keeping you from doing it but you! Quit blaming everyone else for not giving you a free ride. That isn't the fucking source of your problems!!! Try! Just fucking TRY!!! Your dad told you about at least 5 jobs that I can name off the top of my head which you refused because they wouldn't pay you under the table!!! Grow the hell up and realize that real life doesn't work that way! You don't deserve to be on SSI! You don't need to be on SSI. You do "side jobs" which could easily cover all your expenses. It's your own damn fault your car got towed because you never registered it! It would have only cost you 36 fucking dollars at the time!!!!! Even if you couldn't have come up with that immediately (which, actually, if you just passed on one of the two weekly cartons of cigarrettes, you could have), the fees would have been minimal if you'd just paid it as soon as possible! Instead, here you are with tags over a year out of date and calling the police thieves for impounding your car! Damn! Take some responsibility!!!!! If you did decide to go rob a store, it's not because your dad and Linda "drove you to it", you asshole; it's because you made a decision. You have food in the house. You have no need to go steal! Fuck!!! I can't even tell you how pissed I am at you! You whine about your hard breaks and how your dad never helps you out when you "need it them most". What about the last... what is it now, 6 months? that you've stayed there rent free? What about all the cash your dad gave you so that you could grab something to eat or fill your car with gas? What about all the times before this when he bailed your ass out of the situations you got yourself into because you're his son??? Do you have any idea how freaking lucky you are?!?! It took Anthony ten years to get through school working full time and going to school on the side. TEN YEARS!!! If even a quarter of what your dad has given to you--and I'm only talking money here, since that's all that really matters to you anyway, right?--he could have gone to school full time and graduated in 4 years. He wouldn't be working 50+ hours each week and trying to get his Master's right now--because he'd already have it!!! Be fucking grateful for once in your life instead of acting like a spoiled rotten 4-year-old who always wants more, more, more, more, more! And quit twisting everything around to make your dad look like the bad guy. Fuck you! He's the only one of your relatives who substantially helped you. Your mom bailed on you! She said you should be left on your own in the shelter. Your sister said there was no way she'd take you in! Anthony and I talked about it, initially. Then we found out your "suicide attempt" was nothing of the sort, but only a deliberately calculated effort to get on SSI permanently. No way, buster. But your dad took you in. And who do you say all these awful things about? Not your mom, who left you to hang. Not your sister who had room but refused. Not even Anthony and I who decided we couldn't trust you enough to bring you into our house. Your DAD who actually helped you out and made a difference. So grow the hell up. Shut the hell up. And get over yourself. Sincerely, Your sister-in-law, Theresa How many days until finals? What was one good thing that happened today? Miscellaney: Tell me what you think. Ilsa :: Ilsa's Site �::Ilsa's Comment(s)�:: Don't forget, too, that he is 40 years old with no developmental or learning disabilities and no problems that he didn't get into on his own! [2004-07-27 16:15:43] Tessa :: Tessa's Site �::Tessa's Comment(s)�:: How can I forget?!? Every time I see him, I see all the opportunities he has that he threw away, opportunities my brother will probably never have because Nicky DOES have developmental and learning disabilities. It makes me furious to see him wasting his potential like that... if that makes sense. Aside from the unfairness of him being such a jerk... [2004-07-28 09:38:06] Letters ~ ~ ~ Things I've learned the hard way Most recent: The REAL surprise party - Monday, Jul. 11, 2005 Still not here - Wednesday, Jul. 06, 2005 Moved - Thursday, Jun. 30, 2005 I survived - Thursday, Jun. 23, 2005 Go see her. Now. - Thursday, Jun. 02, 2005 |
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